{"id":1117,"date":"2014-03-15T11:43:23","date_gmt":"2014-03-15T11:43:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamarindweddings.com\/blog\/?p=1117"},"modified":"2014-03-15T11:43:23","modified_gmt":"2014-03-15T11:43:23","slug":"kerala-nair-weddings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamarindweddings.com\/blog\/kerala-nair-weddings\/","title":{"rendered":"Tradition: Nair Weddings in Kerala"},"content":{"rendered":"

Malyalee Nair weddings in Kerala are simple and brief. They have very few rituals and far lesser religious compulsions. A traditional Nair wedding takes place in a nearby temple, the bride\u2019s residence or in a convention center convenient for both parties.<\/p>\n

Pre-Wedding Ceremonies<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Muhurtham:\u00a0The parents of the girl and boy exchange horoscopes. And if the horoscopes match, the families choose an auspicious date or muhurtham after consulting with the family astrologer.<\/p>\n

Nischayam or the engagement ceremony: This ceremony is to announce, share and celebrate the joyful event of the confirmation of marriage. The compared and approved horoscopes are exchanged during this ceremony. During the celebration, there may be a mothiram maattal (ring exchange) ceremony. The families exchnage gifts.<\/p>\n

Pre-nuptial blessing of the bride: This function takes place at the bride’s residence on the previous day of the Nair wedding. Only her close family members and relatives attend this fucntion. It often involves a grand fest. The bride wears fine jewellery and\u00a0silk saree<\/a>. She is then\u00a0made to sit facing the east. Elders give her their blessings. A similar function is organized by the groom’s family in his house.<\/p>\n

Mehendi Ceremony: This ceremony takes place at the bride\u2019s house where the bride\u2019s aunts apply mehendi on her hands. This is a very celebrated ceremony.<\/p>\n

Nair Wedding Rituals<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The most preferred destination to conduct Malayalee Nair weddings is the ancestral house of the bride. However, today, it is more of a matter of convinience. So, many families opt for convention centers or temples.<\/p>\n

Dakshina Kodukkal: Both the bride and bridegroom receive the blessings of elders by giving “Dakshina,” and then, touching their feet. This ceremony takes place at their respective homes. Thereafter, the parties leave to the wedding venue.<\/p>\n

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Nair Wedding Custom<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

There are rules regarding the decoration of the kalyana mandap. The sacred arrangements have certain meanings in Hindu customs. Hence, their placement is important.<\/p>\n

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Kanyadaan<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The bride’s famly welcomes the bridegroom to the venue. The bride\u2019s brother washes the groom\u2019s legs and invites him to the dias. The bridegroom is usually escorted in a ceremonious manner to the kalyana mandap by a group of girls carrying deepams (diyas). He then sits on a wooden plank on the right side of a canopy, decorated with flowers, fabric, palm fronds and banana stalks. The bride is escorted by her aunt to the mandapam. Once she sits next to the groom, the ‘nadaswaram’ plays in the background.<\/p>\n

At the auspicious moment, the family priest performs the nuptial ceremony by chanting vedic mantras. The couple walks around the fire, after which the groom’s father gives him the mangalsuthra which he ties around the bride’s neck. This ritual is called the “tallikettu.”<\/p>\n

Pudamuri<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The bridegroom gifts the bride a sari and a blouse on a platter, conveying to her that he will now assume the responsibility of providing for her life. This ritual is called “Pudamuri.”<\/p>\n

The couple exchange garlands accepting each other as life partners. The bride’s father places her right hand in the right hand of the bridegroom, symbolically transferring the responsibility of taking care of his daughter, in holy matrimony. Then, older relatives bless and escort them to another room. The guests too follow and bless them with\u00a0gifts<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A typical meal in Kerala Nair weddings is the sadhya. Sadhya consists of 25 items, served on plantain leaves. Rice, three varieties of pickle, curries and sweets, avial, toran, olan, kalam, pacchari, payasam, pappads and finally, the desert – paladaa prathaman or chaka prathaman, are a part of the elaborate meal.<\/p>\n

Post Nair Wedding Ceremony<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Grihapravesh: At an appointed auspicious time, the bride proceeds to her new home. She takes the blessings of her parents and all elders present at the venue. As she reaches her new house, the women take ‘aarthi’ to cast off evil eye. The bride holds a traditional lamp in her hand and is asked to enter the house with her right foot. The entire house is bright with lamps all over the house. People consider this to be a good omen as the couple starts their life together. This Nair wedding ceremony is called ‘kudivep.’ The in-laws give the bride jewels and gifts.<\/p>\n

For conducting traditional Nair weddings and to know more about their traditions, contact:\u00a0http:\/\/tamarindweddings.com\/index.html<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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